At least you aren't arguing with me or calling me "backward". A person's choices are first and foremost his own but I cannot help how I was raised. There are words I would not repeat applied to men who prefer the company of other men, but I won't deny with my background I never blinked at hearing them said. As previously mentioned I knew none who might find themselves in such a situation, so it was a matter to which of course I never had cause to give any thought.
Since it sounds so confusing to you then hopefully you'll not check me for confessing myself baffled. You were attracted to your wife and have spent your life feeling only a natural interest in women, yet now you're interested in him and that feels...right, to you? The impulse is exactly the same but to a member of the same sex this time? I don't understand how this could be. Surely there must have been something more dramatic involved.
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Since it sounds so confusing to you then hopefully you'll not check me for confessing myself baffled. You were attracted to your wife and have spent your life feeling only a natural interest in women, yet now you're interested in him and that feels...right, to you? The impulse is exactly the same but to a member of the same sex this time? I don't understand how this could be. Surely there must have been something more dramatic involved.